47 years ago today, my parents got married. (to each other!) Wow. 47 years! Can you believe that? In an age where marriage seems disposable and divorce rates are climbing, it is so amazing and uplifting to hear of one that has survived so long! Within a few months of their marriage, they left their familes and moved to Columbia, South Carolina and started their own family. I made my appearance in 1964 and my little brother showed up n 1966. In 1971 or 72, we moved back to Wagoner and that's where they've been ever since. I know from stories I've heard all my life, that they had their share of struggles. As an adult, I've seen them face job losses and serious health problems at a time in their lives when they are supposed to be retired and puttering in a garden or fishing somewhere. I know they fought and got on each other's nerves at times. I don't think you can live with someone for so long and NOT snap at them occasionally. But I knew, even as a child, that these "outbursts" would NOT lead to a divorce. I was always confident that they would rise above it. And of course they did. They are still in love and devoted to each other. I have seen that as they were caring for one another during their health scares. It was reflected in their eyes, even though they didn't say a word. It took my breath away. Here is what I learned from watching them all my life: committment is a strong word and when you take it seriously, divorce is NOT an opition. You work through your problems together and you "argue" every night about whose turn it is to kiss the other one good-night first. Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad. Love
Darling Daughter
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